Slight disclaimer on the above title: I’m talking about the visual effect of losing ten pounds not the actual loss of ten pounds 😀 Although that said, I did do an article on tightening up your thighs that talked a bit about weight loss if you’re interested in that sort of thing.
For the rest of us however, grab yourself a coffee and biscuit and I’ll proceed :p
So, as I’ve said before, I’ve always struggled to feel like I look my best when wearing casual outfits. They just look no more than ‘blah’ and I go walking around for the day feeling quite chunky and frumpy. I believe I just haven’t been finding the right clothes for my body, and this is why this blog started in order to analyse this problem…aloud…in the company of you guys! But my problem with casual outfits is compounded by the fact that I just cannot resist a good floaty, loose top. The type that hangs from your boobs and floats about your body in an oh-so-casual, look-at-me-I-look-awesome-without-even-trying type of way. In my head, I suppose I’m kinda idealising the type of look that Roxy often espouses, see pics below.
Just so you get an idea of what I’m referring to in my head.
Now I think that pink top looks fantastic on the model, who appears to have a fairly straight figure (I think this is her in a bikini outfit but could be wrong!)*. But when I try the same sort of items on in the store, they never looked ‘cool, laid-back and surfy’ but just plain frumpy. xD.
I’ve used this image before but here’s J Law in dress-downs:
…and the feeling this image gives me is similar to what I get when I’m in dress-downs – like, her mate is doing practically nothing different but looks great and I can’t explain why (NB here is a pic with her actually rocking denim shorts, proving it’s about the garment itself and how you wear it)
Now I think it’s important for girls like me to change their mental image of casual outfits slightly. It’s important to lose the idealism of the ‘super-laid-back’ loose/unfitted surfy outfit, and find a way to emulate the laid-back feel whilst emphasising the waist. And it’s another challenge to do this without looking more dressed up than you want. I find a lot of waisted garments have a more smart/casual feel for some reason, and this effect is sometimes compounded when you put them on a curvy frame making the overall look quite ‘womanly’ rather than ‘surfy’ or whatever you’re going for.
Below are some examples of small alterations to expectations that you can make to keep your beachy, surfy outfits flattering to your shape, meaning you look 10lbs lighter than if you didn’t flatter your shape. I’ve focussed on the beachy look today, but the same principles will apply for, say, hiking or sporty outfits too. I should cover those in another post at some point perhaps. All my examples come from one of my favourite instagrammers, @gypsylovinlight – if you ever need to learn how to stack rings or accessorise a boho outfit, check out her pictures. She’s not particularly an hourglass figure but the principles are what I’m trying to get at. And a slight disclaimer, the rules for clothes are not exactly hard and fast so sometimes if you want that straight-up-and-down dress or top, you just damn well buy it and enjoy it because it’s just clothes at the end of the day!
Look 1 is beautiful but obscures the waist, whereas look 2 clings to the waist more allowing a slimmer look on an hourglass figure.
Short beach dress
Cute look on the left, but bound to make a curvy girl look heavier than she is, whereas the gorgeous dress on the right follows the line of the body which is great for hourglasses.
Shorts and top
A straighter figure can look better with a floaty top paired with shorts, because often their hips and thighs are a very narrow point of their body to show off. An hourglasses narrowest part is her waist, and if you play it up like the outfit on the right, you de-emphasise the thighs and hips which is our widest point, and avoid looking heavier than you are.
*Mid post I had a bit of an ‘aha’ moment too when I tried to look for the same model who wore the straight T-shirts in the bikini section to see how straight her figure was – I realised they very craftily use a curvier shaped girl to model the bikini’s than they use for the clothing. And where they did use a straight waisted girl, she looked worse in the bikinis than she did in the straight-hanging tops. Even the tall slim models can’t suit all different styles of clothing and have their strong and weak points.